8 is Enough

Today is our 8 month LID anniversary! We're almost to the double digit mark! The next group of referrals should be sent in the next few weeks, so we'll update the wait time then.

Have a great weekend everybody!!

Congrats to the soon-to-be parents!!!

Our friends Joel and Misty got the amazing news yesterday that this August they'll be the proud parents of a baby boy!! How exciting!! We are so happy for them and can't wait to meet the new little guy. Check out their blog (we have a link on the right) for all the details of their life-changing day!

One year ago today...

We had our first home study visit. It's hard to believe it's actually been a year! We can only hope the next year or so goes by just as quick!! Yep, I said year or so...meaning the wait time is once again on the rise. This week the CCAA sent out referrals for those families with a LID between October 27th & November 1st 2005 (reminder, our LID is 9/12/06).

This time last year, as we were beginning our paperwork, the wait was about 10 months...now the current wait time is about 18...and climbing. Rumor has it that the wait will climb to 24-36 months!! YIKES!! Not sure where we'll fall in that estimate, but if current trends continue, we're probably looking at December 2008. When we decided it was time to start our family in 2002, we never imagined the journey would be this long, but we are beginning to come to terms with this reality and are determined stay positive while we wait.

Here is a great quote that we try to keep in mind:

There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.

Grab a hanky...

We found this video on another website and just had to share it with you all. It is a song written by Steven Curtis Chapman, a Christian artist, for his three daughters that he adopted from China. He and his wife have also created an organization called Shaohannah's Hope which is a great resource for anyone interested in adopting.

Hope you enjoy the video...

Bottom of the 7th...

"The Mick"

Another month under our belts! And a fast one, at that!! Now for your monthly referral update:

While we've waited another month, the wait for referrals has also increased by another month. Unfortunately the CCAA only matched 2 days worth of LIDs this time around, they have now referred babies to families whose log in dates are through October 26, 2005. These families waited approximately 17 months for their referral.

Seems like forever away, but we know we'll get there when we're supposed to. So, hang in there with us... It looks like we're headed for extra innings.

Greg & Laura

The Journey

The journey of infertility is a long and difficult one. Each couple that faces this heartbreaking realization in their life has their own unique experience to share. Resolution can come in many different ways, yet there are undoubtedly some common themes that every couple can identify with. We came across a video that does a beautiful job of expressing what many people endure while on their journey to become parents.

Though we have found our path... the path that God made for us, we wanted to share this touching video with all of you. For anyone out there that might be facing similar circumstances... and are struggling for direction, we encourage you to keep praying and hold on to the hope that you will find the way.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your path straight.--- Proverbs 3:5-6

Click on the link below to watch the video (there is music, and you may have to do some scrolling to see some of the words, or change your setting to "Full Screen" - try your F11 key when the video comes up or click Tools, Full Screen).
Empty Arms Video Link

The Name Game - Part Deux

A while back we brought up the subject of a name for our daughter ("The Name Game" posted on 10/5/06). Sorry to keep you all waiting for so long, but we're finally ready to reveal the name we've chosen...

When we first started talking about names several months ago, we did like a lot of couples and got a baby name book. We didn't even get through the A's and we came across a name that we both really fell in love with. Of course we continued through the rest of the book in search of other names that might be possibilities, but never found anything quite as perfect as our original pick. A beautiful name with a beautiful meaning, we think. And that name is Anna.

We especially love the meaning of Anna, which is "grace". We also liked that it is a variation of Laura's middle name, Ann. We're still discussing middle names, so you'll just have to wait a little bit longer for that. :) We'll keep you posted...

Love,
Anna's Parents-to-be

Not Gold Medal Gymnasts

Six months now we've been logged in... waiting for the day that packet comes in the mail and we are matched with the little girl in our dreams. We're resting easy, because it'll still be a while...

Doing the math, the most recent recipients of their referral packets had waited a cool 16 months(it was 10-12 when we were first logged in). Like an incredible growing monster (ok, maybe a bit dramatic), in the last month the wait has increased by another 2 weeks. As we've mentioned before, what we're up against is a backlog created by a flood of applicants when the wait time was very short (only six months in the Fall of '05).

Just to be clear, there is in no way a shortage of orphaned children in China as we've heard people say... just a shortage of children who are "paper ready". Bureaucracy (the REAL monster) rearing it's ugly head, and meanwhile children and families wait to be united. There is also speculation that the upcoming Olympics, which are in Beijing in 2008, are playing a role in the slowdown. Hard to imagine, but if this trend continues we may be flirting with the '08 Summer Games. With Beijing already being one of the world's most populous cities, I don't believe we want any part of that madness.

Your prayers are appreciated.

Greg & Laura (not gold medal gymnasts)

The Brown Envelope

We received our Brown Envelope today from the American Consulate in Guanzghzou, China. This basically means that the U.S. Consulate has received our USCIS approval, and they will have our paperwork for us when we arrive. The envelope contains documents that we will need in order to complete the adoption while in China - it comes in a "brown envelope", so adoptive families refer to it as The Brown Envelope.

Another one of those little things that we can get excited about as we wait.

Death,Taxes and the Frosty...

Isn't that the quote from Benjamin Franklin...

"In this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes, and the Frosty."

You see, we developed quite a taste for the Frosty when we were living in Arkansas about 6 1/2 years ago. First it was just once in a while, then, gradually, 8:00pm would roll around and it was like we just couldn't watch TV without that Frosty in our hands. The great thing about it was that 2 small Frosties only cost us $2.11...no matter what, we could always find $2.11 in change around the house.

Once we moved back here, we recognized our addiction and retrained ourselves to watch TV without that Frosty. Since then, we're able to maintain with a Frosty every month or two.

So, a few days ago, when we were at the Wendy's drive-thru ordering our 2 small Frosties and the man in the box said "that'll be $2.11", we realized that you can always count on the Frosty. Here we are 6 1/2 years later, and we can still scrounge up $2.11 and head to Wendy's to enjoy one of our favorite, most reliable treats.

Have a good weekend and long live the Frosty!

Gung Hay Fat Choy!!

The Chinese New Year (or Spring Festival) is the oldest and most celebrated holiday in China. Because the Chinese use a lunar calendar, the date of the Spring Festival changes each year. It takes place at some time during the end of January or the beginning of February. This year it falls on Sunday, February 18, 2007.

The Chinese New Year marks the end of winter and the beginning of spring. It is a time for families to come together and celebrate each other and all of their blessings.

The Chinese calender is based on a 12 year cycle and each year is named after an animal. The year 2007 is the Year of the Pig. People born in the Year of the Pig are said to be honest, sincere and genuine. They have a heart of gold and people admire then tremendously; the best friend anyone can have. (Wonder if our daughter will be born in the Year of the Pig??)

If you'd like to know more about what year you were born in,
click here.

Happy Chinese New Year,
Greg & Laura

By the way, "Gung Hay Fat Choy" = "May prosperity be with you"

Year of the Pig -- Times Square, Hong Kong

Another Month Down

Well, we are now five months into our wait. Timeframes for referrals have continued to creep up and are currently at about 15 1/2 months. Looking back at the past year, it seems that the wait has increased by about 2 weeks a month. We hope this begins to level off soon, but we will continue to be patient and know that it will happen in God's time.

We have added a few new items to our "Words of Inspiration" link...one that we really like by Ralph Waldo Emerson says:

Adopt the pace of nature, her secret is patience.

Congrats to The Vaughan's!

We just wanted to give a quick shout out to Greg's sister Julie and her husband Brad who have recently announced they are expecting their second child in September. Yep, little Nathan is going to be a big brother, and it will be exciting to have another addition to the family.

Congratulations again to Brad and Julie on their wonderful news! Our prayers will be with you, Julie, for a safe and smooth pregnancy.

Love,
Greg & Laura

Long time, no blog!

Ni Hao (hello)

Sorry for the lack of blogging lately...yes, we're still alive. Between the craziness of the ice storm and Laura's grandma breaking her hip, we've been pretty busy.

Not much new in the adoption world right now, the next group of referrals should be arriving in the next week or so and we'll be able to tell if the wait time has gone up or stayed the same (or, dare I say, gone down).

Remember the cute twin girls we posted a video of a couple months ago (the ones singing "The Wheels on the Bus")? Well, here is another cute video of them, this time showing off their dance moves - a couple of them resembling Elaine from Seinfeld...





Hope this brings you a little mid-week cheer.



(love), Greg and Laura

"4" What It's Worth...

... we've been logged in four months today.

Fun Fact:
The fortune cookie actually originated in San Francisco. And if you happen to be in Springfield and find yourself dining at a little place called Tasia, don't ask for one because they'll laugh at you. Apparently they like to keep it pretty authentic. :-\